dgtal Please tell me you are going to leave this alone.....if you send EVERYONE WILL KNOW IT'S YOU. You will cause more damage than you can realize right now. And yes, you are angry and it's completely misdirected. You need to tell your wife how angry you are and the crazy sh!t you are contemplating. She'll stop you. And she'll be able to stop you by explaining how she would react. You do this, and all this past year will be completely forgotten by your wife. And really, who are you to decide what this other wife needs to know? You have no idea what the situation is over there in that relationship, so please dgtal, leave this alone. Build a bridge and get over it.
