Thank you so much K4D and BP! I guess I just needed to hear it from people that understand what I'm going through. I do love him and my heart aches that he would think we are all against him. And don't want our D to see him. It is not that at all but it was like talking to a wall today.
Nothing was sinking in, he actually believes what he is saying I think. He didn't even go into the last hearing from visitation so I don't know what his step-mother told him. But he is the one that volunteered to give up his rights.
Then saying he never got our D's card, finding that one really hard to believe. Then saying he didn't know when her elementary graduation was when I sent a note to get her dress. I had it with me since it got returned to sender and he just threw it back at me. It's like he doesn't want to face the truth.
I will hang in there, and yes I do believe in God and have been praying so hard the last 9 months I think he is getting tired of hearing me. Thanks for the web site.
BP, listen it's not easy living with a depressed person and I understand where your H is coming from but just give him the space and time he needs and I really believe he will want to try and work it out. Thank you so much for the HUGS and here they are for you too....HUGS! You are just at the beginning so please do not give up on hope, it might just take some time for him to realize that he needs to be there for you.
