things are extremely ugly. he came, knocked, i unlocked door. he played ball outside, then came in. son said they are going to dave and busters. then h came upstairs and asked for money. with son standing there, i tried to deflect and not answer and focus on son.
he didnt let me. he asked again, i said i do not have any money. he kept pushing. i said, u are here for son, take him and have fun.
he went on and on and on and i didnt engage. he said, u think u can just keep everything and sell what u want and keep the money. i didnt answer.
poor son was hearing everything, i kept saying, go play with him and have fun.
then i did answer and say, im paying bills. he said, give me money and i will pay bills. i said, i gave u that chance and u didnt do it.
he told me he will give me no maintenance because he doesnt have to and will work at mcdonalds and u will get $40 in child support.
i said, enjoy your career at mcdonalds. then he told me im not getting anything from his pension, that he isnt signing the stipulation. i simply said ok.
then he turned around and said, i hate you several times.
i said, no, u hate what u have done to your life.
i said to son, have a good time. and h said quietly, directed at me, yeah son, hope u have your clothes for overnight.
i looked at him and said im calling the police. he said, oh im just kidding idiot.
do u love it? he is totally nuts. i called my attorney and left a message.
psycho hasnt been served with order of protection yet so im afraid he is taking son to meet her.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09