still hoping - It is insane. I hope this is progress. It feels like progress in that at least the anger on her part is gone. I know that the chances for success are slim given the circumstances. I also know that her current marriage isn't even a fraction of what we had and she knows it. That has got to weigh heavy on her. She has painted herself into a very tight corner and it will take a tremendous amount of courage to move on what she knows is right.

We'll see.Thanks for checking in!


Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final