A simple postcard will do it, I think---> ..."Be alert. Your husband is calling my wife. I found his phone number in my wife cellular phone call history dated July through August 2008 numerous times. God knows what the hell was what I discovered but counting 33 calls in only 30 days is good enough to be unconfortable mostly when the threat is coming from the local supermarket where your husband works..."

HOW DO YOU KNOW THE WIFE DOESN'T KNOW ALREADY?<--that's a good question...how could I know?

Me:52
W:50
M:30
D:19S:27
Discovered EA:08/08 denied
W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08
Exposed wrong OMW:10/08
Found exact OM's ID 2/09
Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet
25 months after still a rollercoaster