What the hell do I have here?

[Arwen_in_NJ]

Wow. If it was MY wife, I know what I would do... I still want to reconcile, and have not gone thru a D.

I guess it comes down to:
Can you forgive her and work thru your anger?
Will she D OM?
Does she want it enough to work thru the issues that are her responsibility and make the necessary changes?


22 years is a long time to just throw away- it looks like you've got the opportunity to make it better than it was, IF you want it.

Good luck!