DB your butt off which means stop contacting her, end conversations first, look at yourself and figure out what you want to focus on for you. At the end of all of this whether she is back or not, what do you want to improve about yourself. WAS need to see what they would miss if they don't turn return. You aren't giving her a chance to miss you. When you do talk to her, don't do any R talk and keep it light and flirty if anything. That is what she is looking for. She is giving you mixed messages because she is confused and does not know what she wants. The more you pursue her the more she will retreat. She told you exactly that. LISTEN. I think you know all of this, you are just getting caught up in her mixed messages. Ignore the one's that are hurtful. Do you have some friends you can reconnect with? This is like a rollercoaster...a few good days then they retreat...you needs a good support system to deal with it. This is a good place to get some of that.
