Less talk, more action. It seems like the only thing that your H will believe.

We cannot talk people into respecting boundaries. We have to *act* people into respecting boundaries.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!