You will need this board more then ever if she follows through. This bb is a great place for support. The craziness will not end with a d. It is not too late to db. Everybody has set backs. Just get back on that horse and keep going. You need to let it go and work on yourself and protect your children. Having to db in the same house is difficult but you have to do it if you want to save your m. Did you read DR? If not pick up a copy. Follow some of the db suggestions. First get yourself healthy and keep your children safe. You cannot do anything for your w. Go to mc if it will help or go to ic. Do things for yourself. Your w has a lot of issues of her own to work out.
