My H's OW now has a fiance. I would LOVE to tell this poor idiot what he's getting into.....but I won't. And the number one reason is really, it's not my problem but the other reason which is the stronger driving force:
It would only serve to give the OW reason to contact my H and then they are talking a lot more again, and then maybe fiance calls off the wedding.....there's a good chance OW turns to my H for comfort or to be vindictive back at me.
There is NOTHING good that can come from this.....and you're forgetting something HUGE HUGE HUGE here......
HOW DO YOU KNOW THE WIFE DOESN'T KNOW ALREADY?
How do you know she didn't demand the same thing you did, cut off all contact?
Put yourself in her shoes, and let this go. If you need to write this letter, send it to us here.
