Alright. I think H is mostly over the OW and the A. She's engaged and I think she just got a new job in her hometown. Turns out the fiance has a lot of connections and managed to get her some interviews and they are probably going to over look her criminal record. (What a loser.) Anyways. My new concern. This may be the super paranoid, I've been super hurt crazy girl in me....but I'm worried he wants one more opportunity to hang out with her. At first I asked him NOT to go to her going away party. H is convinced she won't have one....he said aside from him, he not sure who would throw one for her. He did promise me he will NOT throw one for her, won't suggest it to anyone else and won't help organize it.....he again says no one else would do it and he sure doesn't want to so that was an easy one to promise me that he won't. Well, I talked to a friend who said it was friend's opinion that it's very respectful that he won't make me a promise he can't keep, which is he won't go to the going away party. (I think someone will organize it, if only to organize a work get together.....but who knows?) So I back tracked a bit and told H "Look, I talked to a friend and if there is a going away party you should go. But I just ask that you come home to us that night." He looked at me and said "There probably won't be a party and yes, if I went, I will come home to you. Not a problem, but really, I don't think there will even be a party."
I just wish she would leave. Things are so much better between us now and he says on a regular basis he wants nothing to do with her and he's doing everything he can to convince her to take a job back home and he wants her the hell out of his life.....so, we'll see.
