IWITW,

On vacation so I don't have as much opportunity to post. Saw your's yesterday. Just keep doing what you are doing. DON'T ask about where she went, what she did, who she saw. This is hard at first, but it will actually likely bother her more than you. If she talks about it, then listen. But let her be the one to initiate that discussion.

I meant to ask, but what are you doing for your GAL'ing? I started going out to dinner and a movie with a friend every couple of weeks - just one thing, but something I never would have done before, especially on a week night.

Just stay lovingly disinterested.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
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