I read the article and am finding it hard to believe someone could think that fast on their feet!! Yes, a brilliant way to handle it and so glad she did it as she did but it didn't sound as if he had someone else...yet.
We fought the good fight because we believed in the marriage and the vows we took. I think we all had our own timeline even if it was only to accept the demise of our relationship. I also think we believed that love would conquer all, maybe a little naive there.
I don't understand your wife. I never have. If you feel as if you are a drift perhaps it is time to put a timeline in your day. You need the structure. Writers don't just sit around all day and write at will. They have a routine. Create one. You are going to find your way.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory