he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

i feel the same as u. they are enabling them. absolutely. everyone agrees, most likely except for them. my fil once told me that he stayed cordial with h in order to be able to talk to him about what he was doing what they felt he should do.

they are afraid of him, never tell h no. never. and that is part of the problem. he never had a consequence in his life. whatever h did, wanted to do, was ok and terrific.

its not fair. mil is my best friend. atleast was. i live next door.

last year they were in atlantic city, i was walking their dogs over that weekend and months later i found out h was there with psycho as well. not sure that in laws knew they would be there too, but they were in same casino. and i was home walking the dogs! and the next day, h was here, sleeping with me and working on opening a business with me! and they knew!

and last night? after psycho has harassed me basically all year, said and done terrible things, they see her?

so what would happen if they told h nicely, no, we arent meeting her? so he would get angry? big deal. he would have to get over it.