i know how u feel. it stinks, it hurts, even if u think they arent in contact.

i stopped looking at anything that could possibly upset me.

my h doesnt have a fb page, but psycho ow does and she taunts me with her profile picture by posting it with him. and she only started doing that when she saw mine last year of my family.

so i stopped looking, cant hurt me if i dont look.

dont look at his fb. dont look at anything. when u guys reach the point where u are seriously going to attempt to reconcile, then u address the fb page and who is his friend. then u set the boundary of removing her, if she is still on there at that point.
just my opinion.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09