I think your X may be DBing you. Showing you how great her life is, pointing out all the exciting parts. Why on earth would she want to chat adn spend time with you when she is busy with tons of friends etc etc. I dont buy it.
BTW, I loved the article. K
What do you do for a living? How about cooking?
You need an intelectual woman, liberal, openminded, citizen of the world, calm and confident. I have her image in my mind. Weird... Of all the people, I can see what YOU need. Or so I think so, probably wrong anyway