When I'd feel rejected, I'd treat that person like a cat. Instead of me feeling all bad about me, I'd let it go. If the cat wanted to come around, that was fine because I liked the cat. If the cat didn't. Fine again. Cat's choice. Decision in the cat's corner.
People know what the truth is, Smiles. Those who matter know you are a great dad. Let me repeat. They know you are a good dad. And even if they didn't, you know that within.
Here's another take on your wife's inability to ask and your need to rescue (and maintain her dependence and resulting unaccountability for her actions based on your 'mind reading'). Are either of these traits something you want your children to learn? Children model after their parents.
