My apologies for not finding you on closing night. If you saw a really tall young man leave early, that was my son. If you saw a fuzzy blur looking slightly Victorian, that was me (still in my discreetly 'give myself confidence' audition togs).
Good luck with the lawyer. Go in with a list of questions. If it's the one I recommended he talks a mile a minute, is very perceptive, highly regarded and skilled. Let him know what your objectives are, ask his advice and recommendations on a mediator.
Connecticut looks for an 'equitable' not equal resolution. Career decisions made during a marriage can take a financial toll when the partnership breaks up. Beware of hubris.
How's the funk? Regardless of what happens in your wife's life, it's about facing your own fears, getting healthy within, being able to let go of those weighty boulders that keep you from being the best you you can be. Learning to love yourself.. the incredible guy within.. allows you to experience and share greater love for yourself and others.
Crappy things happen for a reason. Make the most of the learning experience.
