peacetoday - Read my post under midlife crisis titled "what the hell do I have here". Just when you think it couldn't get stranger...it does. Romantic affairs seldom (maybe 1 in 5) end up in a successful remarriage. Quite often the remarriage is the beginning of the end. Fantasies seldom pan out. Marriage puts reality back into the equation. MLCers avoid reality.


Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final