Ashlee, I just read through your current thread and I can relate to so much of what you are dealing with. I am so impressed with the way you have been handling you situation. I just want you to know you give me strength and I realize from realing your posts how much I need to set my own boundaries and hold to those. I agree with the others that you should wait until you are cooled off and then if you want to say something keep it focused on your son and how he is feeling and getting HIS DAD to focus on that too. As long as it is about you and your pain he will just blow it off. I spent the entire day today in a battle over contact with OW and it is stupid and I am exhausted and nothing good came out of it. Why we do this to ourselves I do not know. Take a deep breath, ask God to take the pain away, and regroup! You have great support on here. I am new and am hoping to build up something similar. I know it would help.