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[wolverine1997]

I really need help. I think that this is it. My wife and I had a HUGE fight this time. I went to work today for a few hours to work on a project. I was only gone for a few hours. I came home in enough time so that the kids and I could go to our religious services which are very important to me. When I got home I found that my wife and kids were gone. I called her on the cell to see when she would have them home. She said that she didn't know that I was coming home early from work to go to my services. I told her that I only went in for a few hours and had told her about it yesterday. She said that I did not tell her and that she was shopping with them at the mall and had no plans of bringing them back anytime soon.

I said that I would come and get them. I didn't have enough time to go and get them so I went to services alone. Afterwards I came home. Wife and kids got home shortly after me. When she got home she went off. She began to call me names and rant and rave. She said that I was a religious zealot and that those are her kids also and that I will not always get them when I want them. She said that I never told her about going to work or leaving early once I got there and that it was crazy for me to consider driving 35 miles to get them. She called me a few other insulting names and then said that this is exactly why she is divorcing me and that she would be calling a lawyer tomorrow. She went on to mention how I was such a terrible person and that she couldn't wait to leave.

I went down the wrong road and tried to calm her down while also trying to dissuade the divorce. I told her that what happened today was just a misunderstanding on both of our parts. I thought that I told her that I was going to work for a few hours and I thought that she heard me. She accused me of lying and then began rambling on 20 different topics of how I was terrible. I began to pursue, which I know I should not have. She blew me out of the water and said that her mind was made up. I tried to reason with her to no avail. I think that she is really going to start the process. I know that she has no money but she is determined.

She then went on to state how she could rip me apart in court and get whatever she wanted. How since she works for a law firm that I don't have a chance. She was viciously angry. She then told me how she and her cousins, who were with her, thought that I was crazy with my behaviour. This might be my last post. I she follows through then what is the point of continuing on?