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Hopeful - nice to see you "out and about" smile

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Have a great trip, and here - I'll send you some of *my* patience. You know, because I have so much to spare. laugh


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

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Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I can recognize it for what it is, deal with it, then get my head back in the game. There's a bigger prize at stake here.
Textbook-perfect DBing from Gima.

I wouldn't expect anything else grin


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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Well, we made it to Disney. Actually in line for a ride with the kids right now.

W has been pleasant - even touched my shoulder very briefly at one point when telling a joke on the way down. Its really great to be down here as a family. My D5 gets a new car when she turns 16 - on the boat into the park tonight she said she had one wish: "that my family have a fun vacation.". As if I didn't love her enough already.

Hope W is soaking all this in as well but not my issue and I can't do a thing about it anyway.


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Go, GIMA, Go!!

Thinking good thoughts for you. smile


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Well. I will be sleeping alone. W said she would put S in sleeping bag on the floor and D will sleep with her, leaving me to the other bed.

I would be lying to say I'm not disappointed. Just have to deal with it.


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Don't let this shake you. Your disappointment is normal and natural. Acknowledge it (privately, not to her), but let it go. Then get your head back in the game.


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Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Well. I will be sleeping alone. W said she would put S in sleeping bag on the floor and D will sleep with her, leaving me to the other bed.

I would be lying to say I'm not disappointed. Just have to deal with it.


I know it's disappointing but keep doing what you're doing. You have come a long way my friend. Baby steps...sometimes they're so tiny we can barely see 'em! smile


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Thanks guys. I will be better in the am.

These WAS's are a very complex breed.


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Hey GIMA, keep up the PMA my man, your doing well, even if things don't go as you hope, I know you'll be having fun with your kids!


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