Well, we made it to Disney. Actually in line for a ride with the kids right now.
W has been pleasant - even touched my shoulder very briefly at one point when telling a joke on the way down. Its really great to be down here as a family. My D5 gets a new car when she turns 16 - on the boat into the park tonight she said she had one wish: "that my family have a fun vacation.". As if I didn't love her enough already.
Hope W is soaking all this in as well but not my issue and I can't do a thing about it anyway.
Don't let this shake you. Your disappointment is normal and natural. Acknowledge it (privately, not to her), but let it go. Then get your head back in the game.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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Well. I will be sleeping alone. W said she would put S in sleeping bag on the floor and D will sleep with her, leaving me to the other bed.
I would be lying to say I'm not disappointed. Just have to deal with it.
I know it's disappointing but keep doing what you're doing. You have come a long way my friend. Baby steps...sometimes they're so tiny we can barely see 'em!
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10