but revealing information. "Revealing" defined broadly, by the way. As in, revealing things about her personal life, her interior dialog, etc.
The reality of separation SP is often lonlier than what you expect. You mention how you sometimes cant get out of bed when home alone.
Mrs SP will feel the same emptiness but sprinkled with guilt and as she knows a dog will come when you call it ,so she calls. ( Perfect coach ) .
Try being a cat SP. Dont respond. Dont make this separation easier for her. Let her live with her choices. If you are always there does she feel lonley - I wouldn't.
I know what you mean about the kids being disappointed but the child was having a party. He would not of been disappointed for long and he has a lot of disappointments looming having divorced parents. You cant protect him from them all. What if you ahd not of saved Mrs SP. She would of had to of faced consequenses of upset son. sShe would of felt some pain in that. Others would of seen .Lesson may of been learnt but no SP to the rescue again.
Detach detach detach. If you dont and she finds a new man and he gets called to go buy the cake YOU SP will be the one that is hurt. I think you stand a better chance of saving the marriage if you stand back.
