S and H just got home from a family night with the Eagles. I could tell right off something was wrong with S. Finally got S to tell me. All went well til near the end when H started texting OW. S said something to him and H said to S "Why are you looking at my phone?" S said "I'm not spying on you I just happen to look and see her name" H says "good way to end the night" and "I'm sure your going to tell your mother." Then H didn't talk to S the rest of the night, including the ride home. H just came in here, asked why I'm on the computer, I really didn't respond and when he walked out S tried to talk to him and H ignored him, just shaking his head.

I'm pi$$ed, really pi$$ed. All this does is confirm that I need to do something in the way of an ultimatum.

But right now I need advice on how to approach this to H. I am enraged and want to scream but know I can't...I just need the right thing to say. I won't be able to sleep unless I address this. Any suggestions PLEASE?

Last edited by Ashlee; 08/03/09 03:25 AM.
Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10