My W called me Friday on my day to pick up D2. She asked me if I would go to the movies with D2 and her to watch a movie that night. I told W that I wasn't going to go as a family due to her recently filing for D just weeks ago. I told W that I would do things as a family once she dropped the D and showed that she was serious etc. W stated that I rejected her and got off the phone being upset.
When I got off from work, I went to pick up D2 from W. She was going to deny me taking since she planned to take her to the movies. I explained to W that she should have taken D2 during the day before I got off. W asked me again to go to the movies and I further stated that I wasn't going. W ended up agreeing to let me take D2 to stay with me for the weekend after a long drawn out disagreement on things.
Today, I drop D2 off so W can get her ready for church. W intentionally was trying to seduce me by waking around me naked. I tried to leave several times so I didn't slip up but W asked me to help her get D2 ready. While getting her ready, W mentioned some romantic movie that is coming out in a fews days that she wants to see. W said that she didn't have a date and would take her mother most likely. She asked me if I would take her but I told her no.
My W is trying hard to get me to slip up. I'm very proud of myself though. W did look super hot though. I just tried my best not to look at her and act uninterested. She even asked me if I thought she was fat etc. I didn't answer that question. I still got in trouble for not answering anyways.
If she wants to really work on the M, she will drop the D and show me that she is serious. Plus I was just served the D papers on the 28th. Until then, I will continue on the single dad path.. Working on me and my relationship with God.
I tell ya... Deception will tear you up if you can't decern it.
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".