He wants to maintain a friendship with me but is that even possible?
From what you say, it sounds like he really wants more than friendship. If you really have no interest in reconciling with him, I don't think it would be the kind thing to do at least not now.
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Do I seem wrong for not wanting to go back to him now when that’s what I fought for and wanted for so long?
Not at all. He had an A and mentally abused you, it sounds like really cruel to you. I thing marriage is important, but I think there's some things like abuse or drugs, etc. that change the sitch and make decisions different than if that's not involved. Karen
