Recovering yourself from all this

[sleeper]

...there is nobody I know who has anything positive to say about OM, other than he's 'harmless' and will do whatever STBX says. Both of them seem to have the same maturity level.

Frank I feel as if you're reading my life story.

My X's OM (now husband) is described as a "jerk" or "jackass".

He often waits on her hand and foot (I've witnessed it) and even irons things for her.

Yep, they are both very juvenile.

DO NOT LET ANY OF THAT FOOL YOU. IF THE SAME AS MY X'S SITCH SHE WILL MARRY HIM.

He ain't harmless.