Hi motoB, sounds like a good talk. Now that you have said these things, dont say them again, let it go. Now she knows what you want, and hope for if you keep talking about out, or bring it up again at all, she will feel pressured. I wouldnt worry about the backslide, sounds like a 1 step back, half a step forward kind of thing! Not a total set back.

I wonder why she would think that you would try to trick her into having an A? Did you ever "test" her before on other things?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...