You are a woman of strength, beauty and grace......and I think that OW will find that a very tough act to follow!
Cagzmom is right about being "the first" too I think (Thanks Cag for giving us all that new healthy perspective!). No matter what our ex does, that can never taken away...... and the person the OW/OM are getting is NOT the wonderful person we got (or thought we were getting). It is a pale imitatation with no underlying substance!...... But, I know it still hurts!
Hang in there, peace!
((((((hugs))))))
TJ
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