I see you're new to this thread -- looks like you started posting here about two weeks ago.
I'm going on six months here w/Kevin. If you have some time, and want to go back and read all of his threads, it might give you a better understanding of the situation he continues to wallow in.
There are not too many posters left here, this is an extremely frustrating thread. But those of us on here, especially CityGirl, 25, Stuck and I -- have continued to try to help Kevin.
Every poster has their own approach, so though you took offense at CG's approach, I don't think Kevin did. If he did, he'd let CG know.
And if you have a chance to follow some of CG's thread, you'll have a better understanding of where she's coming from also.
If you continue to post here - welcome - we need all the reinforcements we can get!