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[pauld2100]

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ok well I guess you all know I have slipped here and there through this. Maybe I just cant put down in text all of the crazy things that happen and how complex just a basic meeting can be or could be with my W. she has decided to get together with anouter guy! this one at her HS reunion... she is going to have this person move out here from another state, needless to say I was floored. I know I slip sometimes and have been repecful and kind as possible and really nothing has worked! not that I even have a chance to see her much anyway with NC. being kind has done little to nothing, NC also with little results. What ever I slipped on has just added to pushing her away even more. again it is so comlex when I do see her that I guess she really knows how I feel without a word, even when I am putting my best foot forward. Not living at home through this has also taken its toll. She was not afraid to inform me about this latest move. She also admitted she cares about me but not in that way anymore. So far I felt I had done as well as I can for hit after hit from this. I also verified her feelings as well as I slipped on talking about the R and did my best and stopped it quickly as possible. If she really does move this person into the house with the kids, and I dont think the kids even know and if they do I may hear about how they feel about it, so far I can tell that she is not really giving much thought to how they feel about anything! maybe I went too dark! I think I may have, now that she is going this far with this next person, well I have never had to deal with this before. I cant put everything down here in words, her actions when she sees me for a minute or two is still a little confusing but seem to be just being freindly but not close....