Responding with "how about now?" works. I'm sorry it didn't dawn on me sooner, but I didn't want him to feel I was doing the pressure-only want you for sex-thing. Tone of voice matters. Hot, funny, whatever. Just not like "well, put up or shut up" challenging.
Let me know how it works if you try it. Jayce
Well, yesterday was my first chance to try it. He said something that indicated he was willing to go for it - sometime that day - and I said, "How about now?" playfully.
He said, not now because he was going to take a nap, but later that day. He had already announced his plan to take a nap, and he usually has a nap on Saturday afternoon, so I don't think this "nap" idea was a response to my "how about now?" I didn't get upset about it, and he had his nap. And we did try later. I'm going to start a new thread about that!
