Originally Posted By: Sara
That's what I was referring to also. Fine, she took offense at your choice of words. Big deal. Move on. Next time say something different. Nothing wrong with your words. In fact, it is important to actually "watch" kids. But so be it. She probably would have criticized any words you chose. Water off a duck's back.


Thank You Sara! You are 'spot on'!
She's still got a ton of anger towards me. Sometimes, she softens up, just a bit...then, it's back to being cold and hard and giving me the cold shoulder.


ps - I'm gonna let the kiddos grandparents keep them that weekend, and I'm going to Wichita Falls to do the Hotter 'N' Hell 100...it's a 100 mile bicycle ride. It's gonna be a big challenge for me...and I'm up for it!


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.