Welcome (I never know if thats the right thing to say!)
Some words of encouragement here in how you're handling things....
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I want to do 180's concerning these areas but it is impossible because he lives so far away
These 180's are never wasted. They are for you . Do them to improve you. Be comfortable with them. Show the new you to the people round you. They shouldn't be forced although they may start that way. They shouldn't be used as a "look at me" solution.
In my sitch - my W has hardly seen me in the 2 months since the WA happened.
The only way of "showing" her is through the people she interacts with. I know it's working for me. I know others like the new (actually the original) me..
The early days were painful. They may be for you. You have the blessings of children who will need their Mum to be there for them and I have every confidence you will be.
Be strong. Show patience. Have faith.
You've already have some very good advice from the folks here.
Take a wander round the community here. I'm sure you recognize similarities in other stories that will help you when you least expect it.
