Seems I misjudged S16. He said the reason he didnt turn up on Thurs night/Fri morning was b/c he missed the time we had agreed so out of respect went back to his dad's. I understand he got some grief for coming in so late/early.

Don't want to go into details but think my life finally moved forward in a way I wanted it to over the weekend.

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15