Being me, could be he is in denial, dont know where he is all I know that by talking to him is that he is still where we left off, he is still in his tone angry at me everything is my fault, kicking us out of our home, him and son not talking etc, I arent bothered because I think that is him projecting the blame so to speak, he may never own up to it being his fault, he was saying it hurt when son shut the door in his face and that is about 4 years ago, he also went on about when they come back from their weekend away that things werent as hed liked, again my fault and that was 2 and half years ago, so he is definately stuck in the tunnel, I havent done this for me, I have done it for my son, and I do believe that he should have his father in his life whatever as happened, I only hope they make a go of it.
