Hi folks not been on the boards for around 5 months, but still have a little read now and again, just popping in today to say fingers crossed, for my son's sake. I bit the bullet and decided enough was enough with him and his dad not talking or seeing each other for over 2 years, I dont know if Ive done the right thing or not, but something made me do it, instinct or what I dont know, well anyway I texted messaged ex last monday to say hope he didnt think i was interferring but it would be good for him to contact his son as he still loves him and would like him back in his life. well ex phoned me up and we chatted quite amicably for around half hour, mostly about son, fine. so since then son and ex have been talking online nearly every night this week and have arranged to have a meeting tomorrow. If this is wot my son wants I am glad I put my head on the block, only hope ex can handle it and hope his wifey keeps out of the way and lets son and dad form a relationship. Life is too short and I believe that if I didnt put my head on the block, son and ex would never have made any connection because they are both so stubborn. we will see how it goes between them, hopefully in my heart of hearts they will succeed in forming a new relationship, but I have to say on top of this folks from talking with ex I can still hear that he is way out to lunch, he as been at this some years, but he is still blaming me and saying I forced him to put us out on the streets, and other stuff, so maybe he is still in replay so to speak,. only hope he can be good for son and they at least have a relationship as fathers and sons should have x
