You are right. I will get through the day. And if nothing else, I have a good dinner planned with friends that are very supportive of me and want me to have a good evening at the very least.
12 years. It is a big deal for me. I am planning on buying a grill in the morning and cooking some steaks and chicken and heating up some edamame for me and my girls.
Today I was looking at anniversary cards and my daughters asked me why I was looking at cards. I said that it is mommy's and mine's 12th anniversary tomorrow. They decided they wanted to help me pick out a card. I don't know if that was the wrong move or not. But they knew I was looking at cards for some reason and I guess I just decided to be honest with them. They took a real interest in wanting to help me pick out a card. I hope I don't get blasted for that as I was silent until they asked. But I did tell them that the reason I am looking for a card is because had it not been for that, they would not have been the most special thing that came out of us being together. So I did try and gear it towards them. Once I told them that, they were all excited about helping me pick out a card.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
