I agree with Karen. You don't trust her now so why put up the front? People having affairs are going to do what they want and don't care who they hurt along the way. If she hasn't been staying there, I would change the locks and ask someone else to help you out in the future. This is a consequence of the affair, there is nothing wrong with letting her feel it.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
