Thanks Lonely Wolf & Shocked, great advice. Definitely won't bring up the book anymore.
I am sorry for your situations but am so grateful to get your replies. Hearing your perspectives is incredibly helpful. As a newbie here I truly do feel uncertain so am glad to get nudged back on track! Think I have a lot to learn about patience, & yes i remember in DR it says about a mo. for ea. year of marriage, well I'm not even halfway there yet! I think Bill you are so right, it has to be about changing me. Great advice.
