Have you mentioned Retrouvaille to her? You can check the website, www.helpourmarriage.org for locations and dates. Its a wonderful peer led program on marriage healing. It is not counseling. It is led by people who have had troubled marriages themselves, sharing their experiences and showing you how they solved their problems. By following the examples of people who have been where you are and moved beyond it to a much better stage of marriage, you and your wife can have a happy marriage too. It works. My husband and I were on the brink of divorce, and now we are proud of how well we get along.
