Sorry to hear your X is marrying today. Mine is too. It's raining cats and dogs here and there is severe weather predicted. It was a beautiful June day when we wed.
I think maybe they're driven to marry in their search for happiness. It's not really about the other person. In the beginning mine said, "This isn't about OM, sleeper." They are still searching for the "thing" that will make them happy. They won't find it but this will be a temporary fix.
In some ways it's as if they are doing everything in their life over (replay) because they weren't happy and they think they went wrong somewhere and if they just do it over but right this time they will be happy.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
