Hang in there and keep DBing - do you have the books? I have DB, DR and 5LL and they have been very helpful so far. I'm sorry I don't have specific advice for you, but know that you are not alone and we're here to support you.
Cheers,
Dia
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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