cagzmom is so right!!!!!! what great advice, what a great way to think about things...its helping me as well so thank you!

peace, thinking of u today, i know it is a hard day but u are receiving terrific advice, keep rereading it to make yourself feel better.

i bet the marriage doesnt last

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09