you are right- it will be hard to see the "ring" on the hand. But here is something to hold on to.
YOU WERE THE FIRST and you ALWAYs and i mean ALWAYS will be. Listen to all these: First to have his child' First to have actually been married to him First home was with you First "new" start was with you
She will NEVER be the first nor will she experience teh FIRST with him. My x's bimbo HATED that!! He told me that once after they had a falling out. It drove her nuts that he had been married before - that he had bought a "first" house .. see she will NEVER be able to be "THE FIRST."
You are right about letting go. You are doing great.... watch out for you.. dont worry about his happiness or unhappiness ...ITS ABOUT YOU!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again