AF, I 2nd everything that hoop said. You haven't dropped the rope yet. I was just like you a few months ago. Drifting along with the current and waiting for her to wake up. Well, someone did wake up, and it was me! Neither you or I deserve what our philandering Ws are putting us through. We have a lot of shared history with them, sure, and that is hard to brush aside, but until you talk to a L and start the D train going, we are always going to be in orbit around your adulterous W and unable to get escape velocity.
The really sad thing is that you will look back on all this advice later and say to yourself, "Damnit, why didn't I just listen and do what all these people had been advising me to do?"
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09