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you never did tell me what is so great about your wife. what makes her all that and a bag of chips?


She has a big heart. She is smart. She is beautiful IMO. She loves life. She used to always put the family first before anything else. She cares about people. She is outgoing and fun to be around. She is a great cook. She has many great ideas. She has many talents and many skills. She is driven and dedicated. There isn't anything she won't do to help someone. She stuck by me even when she had no reason to. She is my W.

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LOL. now you know why she didn't proceed with the divorce. she knows you are hopelessly co-dependent on her and will exhibit rescueing behavior WHENEVER SHE NEEDS YOU TOO. doesnt seem to me she is coming to you to seriously work on restoring your relationship. USER!


I didn't offer her any help or any company.

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btw, you are talking about her again, i understand your frustration and need to vent, but you have to start over back to day 1.


Ugg. I know. Day 1 again.

DW, I am not sure that I followed why you reposted my comments and didn't say anything. Am I missing something there or was it another moment to throw the hands in the air again?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...