Thanks doodles. I did do the right this but it sure was hard. But it also feels good too. smile Not in a punitive way, but in a way that says "no no no, you can't do that anymore." So I'm proud. It's strange that H says he wants the M back but he totally wants the old M back, where he can do very little for the M and get away with it. He doesn't realize when he went and lived with ow he was having a cake-feast, the grand finale, per se. I don't know if this is typical of DB or not but after waiting all this time for him to show interest in saving the M, I now feel a little powerful per se. Not to say I want to abuse the power but I now have a leg to stand on to get what I want out of the R. Maybe I could be wrong, don't know but at least I'm trying to change the game and to set some boundaries. Will be a long road I think. Will see.