thanks guys
Today is the day
It will be weird to see my xh wearing a new wedding band
not that that really means anything to this happy couple as he wore his original band while sleeping with OW
it will be sad to know he picked ow over his wife and children
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Im not going to force the issue
but I need to create peace with my xh
I will not interfere if he wants to have kids at his apartment
as long as they are safe..I have to move on but we still work together and for the sake of our business and kids I need to let go
my XH reacts to the way I treat him
and If im too confrontive or real, he does things to hurt the business or kids
he is very sick
so I have to keep everything stable steady
little contact..but any contact needs to be non confrontive and positive
I will give very little emotional support to him
he will have to get it all fron ow


when I asked XH why di he feel the need to get M again?
he said none of your business?
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow