Hey K-

I am already out of town. I have plenty of neighbors who could have watched the dog, but to use someone else would have made it clear to my W that I don't trust her.

As I am trying to maintain a friendship as a bridge to something deeper if, no WHEN, her A blows up, I chose to appear to take her at her word.

We'll see what happens. :-(


Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed